Thoughts for today

The way to overcome negative feelings is through positive feeling.
Problem:
Whenever things don't go the way we want them to, we start thinking negatively and end up feeling low. The more we think negatively, the worse we feel.
The negativity inside us increases and we spread it around by reacting negatively with other people which, in turn, gets us depressed.
Solution:
We need to constantly remind ourselves that thinking is actually feeling. That's why, all we have to do is to control our negative thoughts and deliberately induce positive thoughts. This way we will be able to control the way we feel about a situation or a person and keep out of the low phases that we, otherwise go through.

True love provides the right environment for people to grow.
Problem:
Instantly looking, usually in relationships we begin to expect from people whom we get close to. We feel that we have love for them, we have a right over them. Because of our expectations we are not able to give the other person freedom to move forward or progress.
Solution:
When we have true love we are able to provide the right environment for people so that they can bring progress in their life. We don't need to hold on them and expect them to do everything according to our needs, in opposite, give them real support without any condition.